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Summertime Sweet Corn Pasta

Summertime Sweet Corn Pasta

Pasta

Sweet Corn Sauce and boiling pasta

One of the things I wanted to do this summer, was become a better, or even decent, cook. I don’t often watch Rachael Ray, but sometimes I catch the tail end while waiting for the Ellen Degeneres show to come on. So I catch her cooking segment. Oddly enough, ever since I was a little girl I have loved cooking shows. Mom would often find me perched at the end of her bed lost in a cooking show. Once I grew up, I lost all interest in cooking, until recently. I`ve decided it`s time for me to grow up and learn how to cook.

I`ve been experimenting with easy basic foods and dishes like casseroles, pork chops and potatoes, pasta etc. I`m not going to try and big meal just yet. But I wanted to share this recipe that I saw on Rachael Ray it`s called Fettuccine with Sweet Corn and Fresh Dill. Personally, I don`t like dill, so I have made a few changes to Rachael`s original recipe.

Jill`s Fettuccine with Sweet Corn (serves 4-6 people)

Ingredients

  • 8 ears corn, peeled
  • About 1 1/2 cups chicken stock
  • Salt
  • fettuccine, tagliatelle or egg tagliatelle
  • 1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil (EVOO)
    Sauce ready to add pasta!

    Sauce ready to add pasta!

  • 6 slices smoky bacon, chopped
  • Green onion or fresh chives
  • 3-4 cloves garlic, finely chopped
  • 7-8 sprigs fresh thyme, leaves stripped and finely chopped (a couple of tablespoons)
  • 2 tablespoons butter, cut into small pieces
  • Freshly grated Parmesan or Parmigiano Reggiano cheese

My instructions to mix together follow the same recipe as Rachael’s on her website. I am just not a Dill lover and therefore left out the dill (I also left out the chili pepper). It

Suppertime!

turned out delicious! And I can’t was able to have left overs for lunch! :)

This is also a healthy alternative to a cream sauce, it has the sweet creamy flavour. And I am sure other spices and veggies could help make this an entirely different sauce with the healthiness of corn versus cream!

Hopefully I can make it again, this time I will make sure to have all necessary FRESH ingredients on hand. Fresh is always better than the alternative!

Must Do. This Summer.

I love to make lists. With check boxes, so I can check thing’s off as I go. It gives me a sense of accomplishment, checking a box. A list I have been meaning to make since school ended is a Summer To Do List (of fun things!). So, I decided to feed two kids with one apple (my rendition of  kill two birds with one stone, who would want to kill a bird?) and publish my list here, to share with everyone!

Jill’s Summer To Do List

Go to a concert – Whether it be the Cavendish Beach Music Festival, Country Rocks the Commons, the Black Eyed Peas or Backstreet Boys. I want to see a concert this summer! Concerts are so light hearted and fun. It’s a good way to get out of the office!

Go to the beach (more than once) – Every summer I say, “I’m going to go to the beach more.” And every summer I end up going once, MAYBE two times if I’m lucky. So this summer I am going to try my very best to get to the beach as often as possible!

Take dance lessons – Dance lessons would be so much fun! Especially if you’re not a good dancer (like myself), but if you feel like you don’t want to commit to dance lessons, do something like Zumba at the gym! At MSVU it’s only $6 a class, and anyone can drop it! The instructor is great, and its a lot of fun. Definitely worth trying out.

Brush up on cooking skills – I am not a very good cook, so for those of us who don’t cook well we can try and make some time this summer to try some [new] recipes (aka try a recipe). And for those really good cooks, go on allrecipes.com and try one of their Top 10 recipes!

Try a new ice cream flavour every time you get a cone – Summertime is the best time for ice cream. I usually stick with some core ice cream flavours, but I know there are some great ones out there that I never get! So the next time you stop in Avery’s or your local ice cream place, try something new!

Volunteer – The most common excuse I hear for people saying they can’t volunteer is that they’re too busy to volunteer. But since its summer and school is out, you really should have more time to volunteer. If you’re in the Halifax area and looking for volunteer opportunities there are many, including for the Friends of McNabs Island Society. This summer is their 20th Anniversary! They’re having a picnic on McNabs (July 17th). For more information about the event or volunteering check out: www.mcnabsisland.ca.

Grow your own veggies – I have the packets lying next to me right now for peas, carrots and spinach! I’m not much of a gardener, so I figure this year I’ll learn with 3 different plants and next year I’ll try for an entire garden. This is much more sustainable and better for our environment than buying from a chain grocery store. If you aren’t able to grow your own, buy local!

Those are just a few different ideas of what I am going to try and do this summer! If you have any ideas for me leave a comment! :)

The Art of Napping

The Art of Napping

Remember when you were little, and you kept saying that you didn’t want a nap and that you were totally wide awake? Then you would fall asleep anyway on the couch? And if you didn’t get your nap in people would excuse your crankiness because little you hadn’t had their nap that day? Don’t you just miss it?

Flash forward to real (although some would argue this), university, life. You are in your two thirty class, your eyes begin to droop, you stifle a yawn, you try and think why you didn’t eat breakfast. Instead of the teacher’s words in your head there is a little cartoon of you, asleep, with a textbook attached to your face while you drool. … Well not gonna lie, that’s what happens to me. And the worst part? NO ONE excuses your crankiness just because you didn’t have a nap!

This is not a guide about how to nap properly, or when, or what you should do.

This is about why napping is a good thing, how it makes you feel better, and above and beyond anything it is about how some people can make the nap an artform! (I am very jealous of those people).

I would like to point out that most studies seem to be of the opinion that a 20 minute cat nap is good for you. From my experience it may be a refresher for about an hour, but in the long run it just doesn’t keep you awake.

In order to make napping an artform I feel I should give you some advice about how NOT to nap.

- Don’t get into your pjs and into bed, turn off the lights and put your ear plugs in. Your body will most likely be getting sleep signals and instead of that 45 minute “rest” period you will sleep for three hours, wake up disoriented and cranky, and the worst part, you wont be able to sleep until really late that night.

- At the same time, let your body get its rest!!! If you need an hour, take an hour!

- Don’t worry about falling asleep while reading. Don’t try and wake yourself up when you are just falling asleep over a book. If you are getting sleepy allow yourself that rest. You will probably be reading with the lights on and so your body will know it is not time for sleep and you will get a relaxing amount of sleep but not too much.

- Don’t complain about how tired you are to everyone around you! (Ok I know this has virtually nothing to do with napping but c’mon people! We are university students, it’s like our job to be tired)! Take a nap or go to bed earlier.

- Don’t plan your naps. I mean, if you want to fine, but I have found that if I set aside that time every day for a planned nap I can no longer sleep.

- Don’t nap too late in the day. This should be an obvious one but if you go to bed at 10 don’t start napping at 6.

- MOST IMPORTANT OF ALL to the Art of Napping: do not feel bad for napping. Our bodies go through a lot in the day. I don’t know where this stigma came from about napping during the day (maybe our internal big kids are like, “hey we are old, we don’t need to nap). Personally, the happiest people I know are people who take a nap at least twice or more times a week!

So ladies and gentlemen. I know this isn’t a guide to napping. But it should help to make your napping a perfect artform! … Actually I kind of feel like a nap right now…

Toronto Celebrities and Officials Accept Challenge to End Poverty, Malnutrition

Toronto Celebrities and Officials Accept Challenge to End Poverty, Malnutrition

Last summer Toronto based poverty advocacy group The Stop Community Food Centre initiated an informative campaign called Do The Math. The project informed Ontarians of the dismal state of social assistance in the province, with the main argument that Ontarians receiving welfare and other social assistance are unable to provide themselves, and often their families, a healthy diet. Many of these people are forced to rely on food banks and soup kitchens for daily meals, where basic essential nutrition is hard to find, The Stop officials insist.

The response to the Do The Math campaign was good. Over 4,000 Ontarians sent postcards to Premier Dalton McGuinty, asking for positive action regarding the nutrition dilemma. But The Stop is still agitated that little has been done to help with low-income Ontarians to achieve a more-equal status in comparison to their neighbours off social assistance.

Usher in The Stop’s latest poverty awareness campaign, the Do The Math Challenge. Beginning on April 6, ten of Toronto’s prominent activists, government officials and celebrities picked up a food hamper from The Stop. The mission is to live off the hamper’s bounty, which usually lasts a person 3 to 4 days, and the city’s food banks for as long as possible, but at least a week. Participants include journalist/author/activist Naomi Klein, singer for Polaris Prize winning punk band Fucked Up Damian Abraham, musicians Rosina Kazi and Nic Murray of Toronto band LAL, and Toronto Ward 21 councillor Joe Muhavic and family, among others.

The purpose of the Do The Math Challenge is to create social awareness about the plights of poverty in Toronto, which are not exclusive to nutrition concerns. The Stop advocates for better treatment of impoverished, marginalised citizens in all sectors of contemporary city-life. It uses the dismal issue of under-nourishment among social assistance users as a vantage point on Toronto, and Ontario’s, many poverty triggered problems.

Follow all the participants with updates of how the challenge is affecting them here. Take action in the fight for equality in Canada.

An Epic Battle. Someday We Will Win.

An Epic Battle. Someday We Will Win.

I completely and utterly HATE web advisor right now.

For those of you who are lucky enough to not have to deal with Web Advisor, I will explain what this vicious and uncaring creature this is. It is Mount Saint Vincent University’s account for financial information, seeing your schedule and where you REGISTER for classes.

If you have any friends, or multiple friends from MSVU on facebook today between 10am to present some of the status updates you may have witnessed are likely as follows:

Cari: HATES the MSVU server

John:

hates webadvisor….

Stephanie: …dear webadvisor: thanks to you i have to go to the registrar to register tomorrow, and will probably not get into my courses. i hate you. -stephani

Madison: has been waiting at the same page on WebAdvisor for a half hour -_-

Kirsty: Still could not register in ANY class after 4 freaking hours!!!!!!!!!!

Suzanne:

im pretty sure the msvu webadvisor is trying to make me throw my computer through the wall…

Catie is thinking that everyone at the Mount should team together to annihilate WebAdvisor.

And mine is full of many updates in including this one:

Jill: so friggen pissed at web advisor. effing sucks. thought i was registered for all my classes, BUT i am registered for TWO of the same classes. and now im going to be effing stuck in the 830 class AGAIN. F you webadvisor. and F you MSVU.

Yes, we are all feeling the same right about now. Not only am I probably going to have to be in an 830 class OR rearrange my ENTIRE schedule, but because of web advisor I had to miss one of my favourite parts of the week.

ZUMBA.

For those of you who don’t have the pleasuring of knowing what Zumba is. I will explain.” Zumba is a fusion of Latin and International music that creates a dynamic, exciting, and effective fitness system,” (Official Zumba website, zumba.com). Even if you can’t dance (like myself) it is so much fun! My instructor, Melissa, says “even if you can’t follow the steps all I care is if you just keep moving and have fun”! It’s really a great time! OH and did I mention…. this was my LAST zumba class!!!!!!!

Person vs WebAdvisor

Now that I’ve gone on that side tangent – back to the battle with the HATED web advisor.

If we head back to earlier today, say around 9:55 am, I was in the cafe at MSVU with a circle of friends, all of us just waiting for the clock to tick on 10 AM. We were all keeners trying to get in specific classes to create the perfect schedule for Fall 2010. And when the clock struck 10, web advisor began to crash. From refreshing your page to the login screen to refreshing your page back to the register screen web advisor was taking a toll on everyone. Even those who ended up getting into their top classes were having trouble with this monster of a system. No one I saw was happy, and those who were happy with web advisor were a scarce sort.

One friend was successful, registering for each of her top classes in under an hour. While others were be re-routed to Fall 2009 classes and somehow this beast was registering her for those classes.

While taking a break from watching my “register” page load to get brunch in the cafe I ran into a friend, Payne. He’s an IT guy here at the Mount and happened to be on break with 2 of the men who were in charge of web advisor. They tried to give me tips but I was already too filled with the venom.  Payne comfortingly tried to tell me that they even set up an extra server to avoid potential problems today, but the monster prevailed. No one could stop it.

Finally I received an email saying Confirmation of Registration. This email said I was successfully registerd for the classes I wanted. BUT it did not list the classes I had been registered for. Being the on-the-safe-side girl I am I called the Registrar’s Office so they could double check I had successfully registered for all my classes. The man I talked to gave me 5 thumbs up, and said I was good to go.

The rest of my day went quite smoothly.

UNTIL

About 6:20 tonight I decided to again be the on-the-safe-side girl I am and triple check to make sure I was registered for all my classes. I do not like 830 classes. And this was the reason I was ready this morning promptly at 10 AM. One of the classes I was trying to get into had an 830 possibility. And I was not taking the chance of getting into that class. I am not a happy person so early in the morning.

I quickly was able to see that I was registered for one of my classes TWICE and was NOT registered for the class that could possibly be at 830. Me = not a happy camper / having a sick-to-my-tummy feeling.

So I had to give in. I registered for that STUPID STUPID 830 AM class.

Dear Web Advisor,

Next year you better watch your back. I don’t – and I won’t – give up easy. I will get you next year. I will get you when you least expect it. When you are thinking about living a long and happy life. I will get you so bad that you will NEVER want to step foot on the Mount website again. I will SHAME you. SHAME is what you will feel. I hope you’re happy, because this happiness you feel… It won’t last long.

From your worst enemy.

Planning The Next 7 Years Of My Life…Should You Be Too?

Planning The Next 7 Years Of My Life…Should You Be Too?

So today I had a nice little rant about how although I’m only 23 I have to have the next 7 years of my life planned out within the next few months…This may seem odd to you or about right depending on the perspective and circumstances you’re coming from…so I thought I’d write a bit about this overwhelming task as it might serve as some advice to people as well as a way for me to get all of my thoughts out.

As I may have mentioned before my career aspirations have lead me to the area of clinical psychology, for this job I need to obtain a bachelors degree in psychology, a masters and a PhD in clinical psychology. This in itself is a daunting task as you might imagine…but wait…it gets daunting…er?

You see, here’s the thing, as some of you might have already found out (or will be finding out very soon), the world isn’t set up in a well planned out and helpful way as it was in high school or any school setting before that…people don’t tell you everything you need to know to do the things that you want to do or accomplish the thing you wish to accomplish. What I mean by this is, I was unfortunately utterly unaware of the process involved of much of the tasks I have to go through in order to finally obtain the end goal of my PhD in clinical psychology.

So, welcome to my headache:

-I started off doing my undergrad in criminology 5 years ago; around year 3 of this 4 year course I realized I wanted to go into clinical psychology…simple enough right? Well, there are a few catchs here. First, upon making this decision I realized I would first have to do a thesis. This was fine, as I had already decided to do one a few years earlier, which was good since I needed an A- average to be able to do this and had been working towards this already.

-One of my profs thankfully decided to mention in class one day, that in order to do a thesis you first have to find a supervisor who will oversee your thesis project (something I might not have known until too late had this never come up in class). This meant I would have to search the department to find a professor who I wanted to work with and who was willing to work with me as well as had the same research interests/goals as myself. This also meant I had to find this individual by around March, 3 months before my application for the thesis course had to be in and 5 months before I would actually have to start the course.

-As you might realize I was very thankful someone had told me this before March…even if it was already January….So, I developed a general idea of a thesis, searched out profs and thankfully got one in time.

-In the end I graduated a year later having completed a 4 years honours degree in criminology with a specialization in sociology and a minor in psychology; completing this all with an honours thesis and still maintaining my A- average. Sounds pretty nice right? Well, that’s what I thought.

-Around the same time I heard about the thesis though I had heard about the GREs as well. These are some of those general testing things some crack-pot thought up to make it harder for students to make it though their education years (thanks).

-So, I started studying for the GREs (general and psychology specific) which I needed in order to get into clinical psychology after finishing my undergrad (as I had planned to take the year off to work and save up money for grad school). This was all fine until I went to sign up to write the course. Turns out the psychology one was only offered about two or three times a year, one I had missed, the next was in two weeks and I hadn’t studied hardly enough for it, and the third would get me my grades too late for most grad school application deadlines. Frick.

-Around this time I had started researching and writing grad schools to find out which ones I wanted to go to. After sending out countless notes trying to get a straight answer from anyone as to if I needed to go back for a psychology degree or if my crim one was fine I finally got my answer. Yes, I would have to go back. Double frick.

-So, I reenrolled to upgrade my minor in psychology to a major (so long year of work). I also found out I needed a minimum of an A- to get into grad school…which thankfully I have, but now must be sure to maintain…but I would also have to do another thesis as my crim one also wasn’t good enough for the clinical psychology master program. Triple frick.

-This meant I went though the process of finding a professor again. Unfortunately in psychology labs fill up fast and I was cutting it close when I started emailing in February.

-Now, I have found my professor and am on my way to completing my second undergraduate degree. Good.

-However, the hard part now begins. I now must write the thesis, write my GRE (specific and general), maintain my A- average, pay for this all so am working part-time, finish my classes in time to apply to Grad school asap (i.e. Sept 2011), and on top of this find funding for grad school research…which is a whole other headache…

-In order to find funding, I must first decide what schools to apply to, decide which professors I wish to work with, meaning I need to also decide what kind of research I want to specialize in for the next 4-7 years of my life and potentially focus on for my career, obtain agreement from professors in each school I am applying to to work with me if I get in and then apply for funding before actually applying to the school to increase my chances of getting in.

-All of this because with two undergraduate degrees, two thesis, an A- average and funding, writing the GREs (and hopefully getting good grades) I may still only be just over the bare minimum of other applicants wishing to pursue clinical psychology…apparently finding time to volunteer is a beneficial part of the application…

See, I don’t think people realize how HARD and f’ing demanding it is to be a student, there’s not just the idea of studying and going to classes and getting good grades, you have to be 10 steps ahead of everything else without knowing what steps to go though! On top of this, the people I need information and help from are “too busy” often and put my priorities on the back burner and think that’s ok because they don’t have any knowledge as to what students go though, that their lives are actually more demanding than someone who has a secure job! When I have to email professors, employers, schools, etc. multiple times and do follow ups and re-explain things, by the time I get the information I need it’s a month later and I’m cutting it too close to deadlines. People don’t seem to prioritize very well in this world and they sure as heck don’t put students or their requests at the top of their priorities. This is a shame because as a student you need things done NOW and not a month later or when they remember it; and this isn’t because student procrastinat it’s because deadlines happen very early and if you’re not prepared because others aren’t giving you the time of day or respect they would give to others then you look bad and this can effect a heck of a lot more than people realize, it can mean waiting another year to finish your degree, it can mean not getting a position in a school or job, or not having the correct information, it can mean missing deadlines and even having to rethink your whole career. For me, nothing can go wrong now, for the next 7 years if I miss a step a lot gets screwed up, something as simple as getting a bad grade on the GRE or missing the deadline for applications or not being able to get into that one course I need to finish my psychology degree can mean my life is put on hold for another year.

I guess what I’m saying in the end is, people need to respect students more, get their priorities straightened out and work hard because as far as I’m concerned there’s a lot of slackers in this world and unfortunately we depend on them for too much. And finally…do students another small favour…if you have information that can help them out…tell them!

Why We Drink Green Beer Once A Year

Why We Drink Green Beer Once A Year

March 17 is Saint Patrick’s Day, international holiday for university and college students, and all true partiers, reserved for the celebration of green beer. Well, that is what most people would say the holiday’s purpose is. In fact, Saint Patrick’s Day is a 1,500 year old Irish religious holiday commemorating the country’s most foundational figurehead. So, here’s the history lesson on why we sporadically dye everything green every March 17.

Legend has it, Saint Patrick was born into a prominent Roman-British family during the 5th century, A.D., in Britain. His father and grandfather were church deacons, a vocation Patrick would eventually pursue himself. Then, when he was 16, the young saint to be was kidnapped and smuggled to Ireland in order to be sold as a slave.

The young captive was eventually met with a message from God. Instructed to flee to the Eastern coast of Ireland, board a ship, and return to Britain, Saint Patrick followed the divine orders. He successfully returned to Britain, and studied with the priesthood, eventually being ordained. In 432 A.D. he was called back to Ireland in order to help convert aristocracy and peasants alike to Christianity.

Saint Patrick’s return to Ireland is when all the folklore originates. For example, the shamrock was conceptualized as a symbol of Irish nationalism due to Saint Patrick’s teaching strategies. He would use the shamrock, or three-leafed clover, as a visual representation of the Holy Trinity – the three leaves of the shamrock are the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. The shamrock is now a symbol of Irish Christianity and Saint Patrick, and its green colour has been adopted as a marker of Saint Patrick’s work.

The shamrock symbol later inspired the original Irish folk tune “The Wearing of the Green,” anonymously written during the Irish Rebellion of 1798. And rebels who wore a shamrock in their caubeens during this era were representing their support for Irish Republicanism, at risk of being hung for doing so.

Following Saint Patrick’s death on March 17, 461, the date was recognized as a feast day during the Christian season of Lent. Soon it would be recognized as a Holy day of obligation, eventually becoming celebrated as a one-day break from fasting during Lent. Indulging in feasting and drinking ale, original Irish beer, became common festivities on Saint Patrick‘s Day.

It is also widely believed that Saint Patrick could party with the best of ‘em. Apparently, he could consume over six pints of beer and still be able to beat out any Englishman in a game of darts. That’s my kind of saint.

In 1903, March 17 was originally recognized as a National Holiday in Ireland. In the 1990s, the Irish government utilized the fun spirit of the holiday to market tourism. Now it is commonplace for everyone worldwide to be Irish for one day of the year, an excellent way to create awareness about the country. The biggest Saint Patrick’s Day celebrations are in Dublin, and also in the Irish city of Downpatrick, where the Saint is rumoured to be buried. In these cities, the festivities last all week, resembling an Irish version of Mardis Gras.

Textually Active

Textually Active

Don’t play innocent, we’ve all been there.  You met up with that cute guy or gal who you’ve been eyeing in class for a quick bite and everything’s going great.  The conversation is flowing and there’s smiles all around until that awkward lull when he or she pulls out their cellphone to read or answer a text message.  At this point you’re red in the face, fumbling to finish your sentence hoping that they’re still listening to you. Then you ask yourself things like, “Who are they texting?”, “Am I boring him/her?” and of course “Is he/she into me?”

Text messaging is a huge cultural phenomenon among teenagers and young adults, in which peers can keep in constant communication, anywhere at any time with the touch of a few buttons. It’s cheap. It’s convenient. It’s perfect.

With these points in mind, texting seems to be a great and inexpensive way to keep in touch with your pals. What you might not have considered though is the strain it can put on your personal relationships with others.

Texting allows couples and dates to keep in touch by connecting, flirting and of course “sexting”, many young adults seeing it as a necessary form of additional communcation aside from e-mails and phone calls.  It also provides singles the opportunity to feel out a potential match and can provide a quick getaway during a bad or awkward date (“My sister’s car broke down/is in the hospital/is in prison/etc.” Anything to get you out of there!).

As amazing as text messaging is, there are potential issues when texting and dating are combined. In an era where electronic forms of communication like e-mail, text and instant messaging are considered the norm, everyone is expected to be in constant contact with one another. It is because of this, a person’s texting habits can be translated into their persona and feelings, whether they’re glued to their QWERTY board or whether T9 is uncharted territory to them.

On the negative side of things, texting can be toxic for relationships and when pursuing potential romantic partners. Many second dates have been ruled out with the constant use of text messaging with friends or ex-partners during dates. For many, texting on a date is annoying and unnattractive. If you’re texting at a restaurant, your date will get the vibe you’re not interested in them and would rather communicate electronically with someone else than talking to you. A problem I have often encounted is the ambiguity of messages. What one perceives as sarcasm, another might take literally.

Now, you don’t have to chuck your cellphone into the garbage to assure a healthy romantic relationship. Simple little things can help, like, I don’t know, dialing their phone number? Just because texting is a norm doesn’t mean that you have to absolve all other more personal forms of communication. And besides, it makes people feel special, and you want to feel special, don’t you?

 

The Irony of Life

The Irony of Life

I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one who has gone though this, and maybe if you’re reading this you haven’t experienced such a wave of irony and dissatisfaction, but chances are you will feel it after reading this post so…umm…sorry?

            I have recently found myself having feelings of dissatisfaction and resentment towards the way the world works…now let me narrow that down a bit since I’m sure there’s many ways the world “doesn’t work”. What I mean is the whole goal of life society has for us. When we’re young we’re put in school until we’re 18 or so, this preps us for the ‘real world’ but what we’re really getting ready for is deciding on our career, in order to accomplish most of these career aspirations we need to go to more school (university, college, etc.) once we’re done that we make our way into the working world, trying our hardest to make all of that education we received work for us and using it to gain experience and entrance into the jobs we think we want. Once we get there we work our whole life to save money so we can retire and enjoy the last few decades before we die. Do you see my problem?

            We work our whole life towards a career that we’re often times doing just so we can make money to retire to enjoy life…so why does our society have things set up so that the only life we’re given is used to work 8 hours/day 5 days/week for the majority of our life so that we can only enjoy the last bit of it when we’re old and tired and possibly not capable of doing anything we want to do anymore?? Why are we spending the best years of our life working so hard towards something that’s just the means to an end??

            Hopefully you will excuse my ramblings here, but these realizations are really quite frustrating. This is the reason why I want to be happy in my career, because I’m going to be doing it for the majority of my life and if you get to the point where it’s not fun you’re going to be miserable for so much of it until you retire! Unfortunately, so many people are not happy with their career. In my opinion, people aren’t happy because so often they’re rushed into a career they may not like because at age 18 they have to make decisions as to what they want to do the rest of their life so they can study and prepare for it (as now it takes at least a masters to get most jobs) or they’re rushed into it because they need the money to pay for the basic necessities of living!

            So, where is this all coming from? Well, as I said before, this is the reason I want to enjoy my career, the problem here is the job I think I want requires me to be in school at least until I’m 30 (why so late you may ask? First, because I need to get a PhD for the job I want and second because I changed degrees 3 times as out of high school I had no idea what the real world was like and so no idea what I wanted to do in it). Once getting out of school it’s another thing, trying to gain experience so that I can actually work in the setting I want to and making my way up the career latter to get to the top so I can make the big bucks and retire ‘happy’…right? Well, it doesn’t end there, my other frustrations lie in the fact that the 7 + years of schooling I still need to do is taken up by things like research and studying of a vast array of topics so that I can find my niche. While I understand why this may be important to some, the fact that it’s standardized this way leaves the people who already know what area they wish to specialize in frustrated as they have to complete a large assortment of classes they don’t need in the end for the career they want which also may bring down their overall marks making it harder for them to get into the school they wish to go to. And of course most of the jobs won’t end up taking into account how much you know about any one particular subject, but instead just look at the initials at the end of your name and the letters on your transcript; because to the world, it’s not important what you think you can do or how passionate and good you are at it just as long as you have the degree.

In a way university has a tendency to kill people’s passion for the work they want to do because it’s too generalized. This is why I often regret not going to a community college as they at least specialize in certain careers and help you get on your way in only a few years. The problem with this is the career I want isn’t really part of the community college curriculum, and even if it was unfortunately people don’t seem to value a two year degree (which indecently focuses more on your degree and gives you hands on experience) over a Masters or PhD (which generalizes and worries far too much about research and book learning).

In the case of clinical psychology (my end goal) I understand the need for a large amount of knowledge on various things however there’s more to it than getting the right letter grades and universities don’t seem to take much other than that into account. All this pressure and frustration is enough sometimes to make me want to give up and forget about the PhD and just do some job that doesn’t require me to be in school for the majority of my life so that I can just start paying off my student debt, but I keep thinking if I end up doing a career that’s less satisfactory to me in the end I’ll just end up depressed and needing to seek counselling.

            Isn’t that ironic?

Can I Borrow You?

We all know what a library is: You register and get a Library Card, then you may borrow books and other multimedia for free. If you are late in returning the books, you are charged a small fee. Students herd there for research assistance from librarians. Cheapskates are prominent in the newspaper sections, trying to save a quarter.  And, most importantly, you must be quiet at the library. SHH!

Now, this last library component is untrue. A new trend in free information acquisition has surfaced: The Human Library. Conceptualized in 2000 in Copenhagen, Denmark, in cooperation with youth action group Stop The Violence, the idea was simply to educate people about diversity. The books (people) are members of minority groups in society, ones that are often met with prejudice. From police officers to politicians to prostitutes – each Human Book tells his or her story and answers any questions the borrower has. In effect, the Human Books are an attempt to slash prejudice on stereotyped lifestyles through education.

Since 2000, the Human Library has globalised. There are Human Library events held all over the world. There is even one being promoted by Atira Women’s Resource Society in Vancouver, which will be running for the duration of the Olympic Games in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside. In fact, there are almost daily Human Library events being held around the world in schools, community centres, and other public institutions as a global front to promote diversity and educate people about prejudism. A full list of events is available at http://human-library.org, along with the history and objectives of the organisation.

I think this is an amazing story. This is one way that we can work towards ending the stereotypes and hatefeul tendencies that are still woven into all cultures, somehow or another. If the popularity of the Human Library grows, maybe our children will be able to pull themselves out of humanity’s odd predisposition to ignorance, stereotyping, and judgment. We all know the idiom you can’t judge a book by its cover. Well, the Human Library has ironically put the sentiment behind this phrase into action.