Comments on: How to Break Up and not Break Down http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/ Student Blogger Network Thu, 02 Sep 2010 07:01:58 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: Melissa Munn http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1859 Melissa Munn Fri, 02 Apr 2010 01:13:58 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1859 Jennifer, as someone who went through a TERRIBLE (the police were called...trust me, it was terrible!)break up in January 2009, I can tell you, it will go away! It's been over a year and I am just now starting to feel like myself. It takes weeks, months, maybe even a year or more, but eventually you'll move on. Break ups happen for a reason - so something better can come along. Just hang in there. Jennifer, as someone who went through a TERRIBLE (the police were called…trust me, it was terrible!)break up in January 2009, I can tell you, it will go away! It’s been over a year and I am just now starting to feel like myself. It takes weeks, months, maybe even a year or more, but eventually you’ll move on. Break ups happen for a reason – so something better can come along. Just hang in there.

]]> By: April Whitzman http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1782 April Whitzman Wed, 31 Mar 2010 03:28:08 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1782 Jennifer, I'm sorry to hear about the pain you are going through, I know it doesn't help, but I have been there, and have wished for anything to take the pain away. That being said, it WILL get better, no matter how much you think I am lying to you. As to the steps, nothing can really prevent any pain, but these steps seem to make more bearable. Good luck. Jennifer,

I’m sorry to hear about the pain you are going through, I know it doesn’t help, but I have been there, and have wished for anything to take the pain away.

That being said, it WILL get better, no matter how much you think I am lying to you.

As to the steps, nothing can really prevent any pain, but these steps seem to make more bearable.

Good luck.

]]> By: Jennifer http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1737 Jennifer Tue, 30 Mar 2010 16:32:39 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1737 I honestly think it's impossible not to be affected by a breakup. Your hints/clues are useful but will not take away the pain. The pain is not going anywhere. It's been months. I honestly think it’s impossible not to be affected by a breakup. Your hints/clues are useful but will not take away the pain. The pain is not going anywhere. It’s been months.

]]> By: Alix Robinson http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1267 Alix Robinson Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:45:11 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1267 Stewart and Johnny! Way to stay strong and true!!! And way to be way opinionated! You should both come and check out my blog I think you would really enjoy it! It's a fun slang ridden blog that reaches to a couple different types of people! Thanks again! Stewart and Johnny! Way to stay strong and true!!! And way to be way opinionated! You should both come and check out my blog I think you would really enjoy it! It’s a fun slang ridden blog that reaches to a couple different types of people! Thanks again!

]]> By: Johnny http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1265 Johnny Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:38:00 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1265 Hey April yet another great blog, love the title too. I agree with Stew and Alix on this one and a blog is all about opinion. And sheesh marymags I think you should write your own blog you seem to have a good view on this. Hey April yet another great blog, love the title too. I agree with Stew and Alix on this one and a blog is all about opinion. And sheesh marymags I think you should write your own blog you seem to have a good view on this.

]]> By: Stewart http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1264 Stewart Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:28:14 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1264 April I like your points here, and I believe if a break up must happen that it should be done face to face in a professional manner. Also a comment to marymags: who pee'd in your corn flakes? Now I must say that this all someones opinion and if you wish you can write your own blog, rather then bashing someone elses. Thanks, Stewart April I like your points here, and I believe if a break up must happen that it should be done face to face in a professional manner. Also a comment to marymags: who pee’d in your corn flakes? Now I must say that this all someones opinion and if you wish you can write your own blog, rather then bashing someone elses.

Thanks, Stewart

]]> By: Alix Robinson http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1263 Alix Robinson Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:26:52 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1263 MaryMags, I have to say that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I do agree with April when she says that in this modern era of technology it is difficult to give the other space. More importantly even if your ex decides they are only 'dating' someone it could hurt and definitely wreck any chance for friendship. More importantly just because April has a different opinion DOES NOT mean it is incorrect, and just because it is NOT your opinion does not make yours correct. As I said before everybody is entitled to their own opinion. That being said, I do agree with you about the title, but come on, in this day in age what is truly accurate? MaryMags,

I have to say that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I do agree with April when she says that in this modern era of technology it is difficult to give the other space. More importantly even if your ex decides they are only ‘dating’ someone it could hurt and definitely wreck any chance for friendship.

More importantly just because April has a different opinion DOES NOT mean it is incorrect, and just because it is NOT your opinion does not make yours correct. As I said before everybody is entitled to their own opinion. That being said, I do agree with you about the title, but come on, in this day in age what is truly accurate?

]]> By: April Whitzman http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1262 April Whitzman Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:16:33 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1262 MaryMags, I appreciate the constructive criticism. It is quite accurate that my title does not quite reflect my article. Titles, to me, are more like seconds thoughts. I think what is written in the article is more important. That being the case, I also liked the pun that I had placed within the title; but I don't want to mislead my readers - therefore, I understand what you are saying. I also comprehend what you are indicating about dating. I just feel that, (as you say), "to both get space and live your own lives" these days is very hard. With Facebook and many other social media devices, it's hard to keep the space we really want to keep. Therefore, I feel that having a relationship immediately after the break-up, would tarnish the relationship. However, this is just my personal opinion, and do believe there are exceptions to every rule. I value your comment and greatly appreciate the constructive criticism! MaryMags,

I appreciate the constructive criticism. It is quite accurate that my title does not quite reflect my article. Titles, to me, are more like seconds thoughts. I think what is written in the article is more important.

That being the case, I also liked the pun that I had placed within the title; but I don’t want to mislead my readers – therefore, I understand what you are saying.

I also comprehend what you are indicating about dating. I just feel that, (as you say), “to both get space and live your own lives” these days is very hard. With Facebook and many other social media devices, it’s hard to keep the space we really want to keep.

Therefore, I feel that having a relationship immediately after the break-up, would tarnish the relationship. However, this is just my personal opinion, and do believe there are exceptions to every rule.

I value your comment and greatly appreciate the constructive criticism!

]]> By: MaryMags http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1261 MaryMags Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:56:22 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1261 Hi April, I would firstly like to point out that the title of your article does not accurately describe the content of your article. This piece is primarily about how to dump someone. There is very little to no information regarding how to get through the breakup, except avoiding the person. Secondly, I disagree with you that dating or not dating someone after the breakup determines the future of your friendship with your ex. In fact, I think that the only way to be friends with your ex is to both get space and live your own lives for a while. After that, if you are compatible as friends, you will be friends. Hi April,

I would firstly like to point out that the title of your article does not accurately describe the content of your article. This piece is primarily about how to dump someone. There is very little to no information regarding how to get through the breakup, except avoiding the person.

Secondly, I disagree with you that dating or not dating someone after the breakup determines the future of your friendship with your ex. In fact, I think that the only way to be friends with your ex is to both get space and live your own lives for a while. After that, if you are compatible as friends, you will be friends.

]]> By: Julie http://campusintel.com/2010/03/05/how-to-break-up-and-not-break-down/comment-page-1/#comment-1252 Julie Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:06:49 +0000 http://campusintel.com/?p=1271#comment-1252 Sniff... I still miss him. Ever wonder if you made the wrong choice? Then what would you do? Sniff… I still miss him. Ever wonder if you made the wrong choice?

Then what would you do?

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